So which is it?

My friend Carmen and I were talking during lunch today and she brought up a good point. She was telling me about a friend of hers who had someone that she broke up with come back into her life. Long story short - the friend asked Carmen for advice and what Carmen told her was that she really didn't miss the guy, she just missed the feeling that he brought to the table in their relationship.

That got me to thinking about things in my own personal life of late. Do I really miss someone after the relationship ends or do I just missing the feeling that's associated with her?

I'm pretty sure it's the first one so I'm not going down without a fight. The other guy may be better looking and have abs of steel but I'm pretty sure that I've got a John Cusack, Say Anything, In Your Eyes type move in me that's good for something.